SelfHosting Guilty Pleasure(s)
from irmadlad@lemmy.world to selfhosted@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 15:18
https://lemmy.world/post/44012666

I’m not sure anyone shares the same glee I feel when I view all the blocked IPs scrolling by in my pFsense firewall. Suricata does a lot of heavy lifting for sure.

What’s your selfhosting guilty pleasure or pleasures?

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TCB13@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 15:27 next collapse

Sure, but why? If you’ve a simple router running OpenWrt or something with all WAN ports closed you basically have the same thing.

yaroto98@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 15:39 next collapse

Maybe it’s a pretty graph/reports thing? I enjoy looking at the pihole dashboard and reviewing top blocked domains. I even look at the top allowed domains and add some to the blacklist.

nymnympseudonym@piefed.social on 08 Mar 15:43 collapse

I too use my PiHole for this pleasurable activity

Look at all the bots and trolls that slammed against my Skynet OpenWRT module… and died.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 16:22 collapse

It really is satisfying. I can’t explain it fully, but there is a sense of satisfaction.

nymnympseudonym@piefed.social on 08 Mar 17:59 collapse

It reminds us we are on the side of The Good.

It is also wonderful schadenfreude to see scammers frustrated.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 16:12 collapse

Why do I like to watch them? Can’t explain that fully, but I also find watching the flows in ntopng to be fascinating. Maybe I’m just easily entertained. As far as why I would run pfsense over OpenWrt or similar, it’s mainly what I know and I can drive the pfsense bus well enough. Back in the day I experimented around with OpenWrt, and it may have improved over the years, but I found it kludgy.

ETA: Also to do IDS/IPS you’ll have to install Suricata, Snort or SoftEther anyways so…

nymnympseudonym@piefed.social on 08 Mar 18:01 collapse

Do check OpenWRT again. These days even a network-ignorant person like myself can point and click to set up guest networks, configure individual devices’ access, adblock, crazy good firewalls, …

Very slick & professional

Alvaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 08 Mar 16:21 next collapse

Mine is seeing the “removed” and “started” when I update all my dockers

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 16:26 next collapse

Can relate.

Junkernaught@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 09 Mar 04:51 collapse

Use Watchtower. You’ll miss out on this pleasure though.

Alvaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 09 Mar 08:43 next collapse

I like manual updates, keeps me in the loop

Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 10 Mar 05:43 collapse

Not maintained anymore.
Please look for replacements and stop recommending it.

rtxn@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 17:30 next collapse

Mine is using a network share to transfer files faster than any USB device we have at home.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 19:51 collapse

…and how do you manage those speeds?

rtxn@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 03:38 collapse

Three important factors:

  • Gigabit ethernet
  • SATA-attached storage
  • My family not knowing what the fuck USB 3.0 is, and why blue USB is better than black USB.
ki9@lemmy.gf4.pw on 08 Mar 17:31 next collapse

Watching the bots eat my iocaine poison. Its most of my traffic.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 19:55 collapse

Muuhahahaha!

savvywolf@pawb.social on 08 Mar 18:46 next collapse

Tweaking my various Nix configs feels good and satisfying.

… When it works, that is.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 08 Mar 19:40 collapse

I love to fiddle to see if I can improve on some app, service, or configuration of my server just to see if I improve performance, etc. Example: pFsense…great googlymoogly at the options. I kept trying this or that tut, no joy. So I sat down with the manual, and just did what I knew, Then did a lot of reading, and I did find one or two tuts that actually were, I guess you’d say, ‘at my level’. Then I fiddle to see if I can get better performance or to see what one of the thousands of options does. I have leaned heavily on backups from time to time.

Decronym@lemmy.decronym.xyz on 09 Mar 03:40 next collapse

Acronyms, initialisms, abbreviations, contractions, and other phrases which expand to something larger, that I’ve seen in this thread:

Fewer Letters More Letters
DNS Domain Name Service/System
PiHole Network-wide ad-blocker (DNS sinkhole)
SATA Serial AT Attachment interface for mass storage
VPN Virtual Private Network

3 acronyms in this thread; the most compressed thread commented on today has 6 acronyms.

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melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 09 Mar 08:06 next collapse

Pushing my commits that trigger my own gitlab runners that build my c++ application across 32 cores/threads homelab server.

melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 09 Mar 08:07 next collapse

A second guilty pleasure would be looking at my grafana dashboards.

melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 09 Mar 08:09 next collapse

Third guilty pleasure is 10gbit/s fiber network at home.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 09:53 collapse

Well, would you look at Mr Moneybags over here. LOL I wish tho. I just have a 1gbit connection.

PlutoniumAcid@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 10:50 next collapse

Crying in 70Mbps copper… 15 upload.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 11:36 next collapse

Realistically, 1gbit connection is good for uploading and downloading huge architectural plans, but other than that, I rarely use anything close to it’s max capacity. It’s like having a killer sports car that will go 0 to 60 in a few seconds, but you rarely have the need to do that.

melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 10 Mar 04:31 collapse

Fact. I only use more then 1gbit/s for file transfers internally between computers or between the server and a computer.

melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 10 Mar 04:30 collapse

10gbit fiber locally doesn't mean I have this speed to the internet (I'm not).

melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 10 Mar 04:33 collapse

I bought the server hardware 3 years ago, so when the prices of ram were also fine. Today it's not fun anymore..
I really hope those ram and nvne prices go down again! I can't upgrade anything now.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 10 Mar 06:31 collapse

It’s a trade off. Buy older equipment and DDR3 is cheap. I dropped 40 more gb on the server for about $45 USD. The downside is that older equipment is not as energy efficient and as fast as newer equipment.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 09:52 next collapse

Ahhhh I do like my grafana dashboards.

Bakkoda@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 14:43 collapse

My proxmox dashboards make me feel tingly in my no no parts

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 08:37 collapse

Waaay out of my field of moderate expertise. Rock it tho!

s3rvant@lemmy.ml on 09 Mar 08:23 next collapse

Gaming with friends and family over Tailscale on my servers; it just works

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 08:36 next collapse

Do you get a lot of latency with Tailscale?

Alvaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 09 Mar 08:43 next collapse

Why would they? It is peer to peer

s3rvant@lemmy.ml on 09 Mar 09:28 collapse

Nope! We use it for Jellyfin too which also works great 😸

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 09:56 collapse

Cool. I just figured traversing a Tailscale VPN would be yet another ‘thing’ between you and your gaming partners.

EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 10:39 next collapse

Either way you’re just going over the internet. There will be overhead, but not enough to be that big a deal.

s3rvant@lemmy.ml on 10 Mar 07:50 collapse

Tailscale runs on Wiregaurd which is ridiculously fast. Also helps we’re located physically near each other on fiber from the same company so less network hops.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 10 Mar 09:37 collapse

I’m no stranger to Tailscale, I just thought it would have been a bit slow for gaming.

ppb1701@ppb.social on 09 Mar 08:48 collapse

@s3rvant @irmadlad oooh "lan" party! nice

melroy@kbin.melroy.org on 09 Mar 09:04 collapse

We used to need tools like Hamachi back in the days. And it was awful, didn't work and caused me way too much headache

portnull@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 09 Mar 09:01 next collapse

  • Seeing the rising request count as ai bots circle around in iocaine
  • Knowing where my photos and files are
  • Having useful services that don’t require a subscription to random company
  • Learning and experimenting with things
irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 09:10 next collapse

Learning and experimenting with things

This is the part I really love.

Maroon@lemmy.world on 10 Mar 12:09 collapse

Seriously, of there is a guide for how a newbie can set this up, please let me know. My little website is being bashed everyday.

portnull@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 10 Mar 14:55 collapse

Iocaine? I followed the instructions on the website which were fairly easy to follow. Depending on your skill level it might suffice.

umbrella@lemmy.ml on 09 Mar 13:55 next collapse

watching all the ads and tracking domains get blocked is not guilty at all for me. i could do it all day.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 09 Mar 14:29 collapse

lol

Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 10 Mar 05:42 next collapse

I get a good deal of satisfaction seeing my aliases of blocked connections.
Not really a guilty pleasure though.
Do you feel guilty if I’d asked you about that?

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 10 Mar 06:28 collapse

Do you feel guilty if I’d asked you about that?

Yeah I probably would because I spend a lot of time watching it, blocking new threats and unwanted guests. My goal is to achieve the cleanest stream possible.

Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 10 Mar 15:47 collapse

Good luck on achieving that.
You’ll be more successfull in whitelisting every possible connection instead ;)

Spend some time (IMO too much) mysealf researching ASNs and publicly accessible blocklists of datacenters/crawlers.
Not an easy task.

Edit: Grammar (lol

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 11 Mar 06:46 collapse

Man, why you want to trample on my vision? LOL My default is ‘deny all until something complains, and address PRN.’ Some of my more productive lists are the Internet Storm set, a lot of Firebog lists, and some I’ve compiled myself. Tons of CIDR rejects, not a whole lot of passes.

Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 11 Mar 10:07 collapse

No offense intended.
Like I mentioned earlier: I am doing that myself.

Also have some of the firebog lists, spamhaus and my very own which I have recently started.

Currently also in the progress of doing my own ublock origin blocklist.
It’s all coming along pretty nicely!

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 11 Mar 11:24 collapse

No offense intended.

Just pulling your strings man.

Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 11 Mar 13:24 collapse

I got jebaited

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 11 Mar 16:04 collapse

…oh you kids and your slang!! (We had plenty too) I had to look it up. Going to have to try to work that into conversation. Thanks. I have a fascination with the etymology of words, phrases, and their history.

Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Mar 12:44 collapse

Coming from here: youtu.be/d1YBv2mWll0

Actually it seems to be a twitch (or probably 4chan) meme.
Not sure and too lazy to research.
Have fun :)

HumbleBragger@piefed.social on 11 Mar 13:29 collapse

Mine is looking at the blocked domains in pihole and watching my TV trying to call home desperately without success.

irmadlad@lemmy.world on 11 Mar 16:02 collapse

I don’t feel so weird now that I see a lot of people who have the same guilty pleasures.